"Dad you are..."

Late yesterday afternoon, my son and I were headed into a straight stretch at 3.5 miles seeking to pass the 5-mile threshold. As occurs often during these runs, we get a chance to catch up on conversation and build our relationship. Little did I know, this one conversation with Ben would send ripples through my mind and challenge me toward eternity.

In a sort of boastful sense, Ben was spouting gratitude of his Poppy. Today, Poppy mounted the passenger side of the Chevy leaving Ben in full command of 351 horses and a 13-foot trailer. He successfully made it to his destination with both trailer and truck still intact—quite the feat for a relatively short fifteen-year-old boy. Of course, he called to brag about this opportunity.

Nearing mile four, the conversation took a turn. I shared some of my own accolades of Poppy and we reminisced about lessons learned from this great man. I then hinted in the conversation wishing to know what my son has learned from me. Without hesitation and in sort of a riveting sense he said, “Dad, you are one of the most godly men I know.” My gasping for breath at that point was not from the pain of running but the desire to be a godly man. This short phrase captured my heart, memory, and focus. I began to scan the artifacts of my life hoping to remain godly in his eyes. At that instant, the importance of living godly became a renewed fresh desire.

Here are three tips toward being Godly Men.
· Lead lives of integrity – Titus 2:12
· Guard your heart – Proverbs 4:23
· Live pure in all things – Philippians 4:8

To all the Grandfathers, Fathers, and Sons, remember – our lives are being monitored daily by “little ones” shaping their own identity and faith.